Hello I have only been married for almost 2 years, and there is just so much miscommunication. And I don't know how to get us back to talking like best friends, like before.
Will he pray with you. Normally after prayer its more positive communication. It may start off as small communication after prayer but if you continue it can grow.
Michelle Williams
May 29
Thank you
Mrs. Toy Banks
Jun 4
Hey Sis, thank you so much for sharing that. First—take a deep breath. You're not alone, and what you're feeling is real and valid. Marriage, especially in those early years, can feel like a whirlwind of expectations, emotions, and unspoken assumptions.
Let me encourage you with this truth: Just because you’re struggling now doesn’t mean your marriage is broken—it means it’s being stretched. And stretching can lead to strength if handled with grace and intention.
Here’s what I want you to know: 💬 Miscommunication isn’t a sign that love is gone—it’s a sign that clarity is needed. 🛠️ It’s not about going back to how it used to be—it’s about building something even better, with deeper understanding, maturity, and intentional love. 👂🏾 Start with one simple but powerful question: “How can I love you better in this season?” And when you ask, really listen. That question opens the door for friendship to re-enter.
You don’t have to do this alone. Keep showing up to our SWC Mastery classes, take the courses that were created for you to manifest a Satisfied life, stay connected to God, and give yourself permission to grow.
I'm praying for wisdom, peace, and a fresh connection to rise up in your home. You’ve got this—and I’m walking with you 💜
Will he pray with you. Normally after prayer its more positive communication. It may start off as small communication after prayer but if you continue it can grow.
Thank you
Hey Sis, thank you so much for sharing that. First—take a deep breath. You're not alone, and what you're feeling is real and valid. Marriage, especially in those early years, can feel like a whirlwind of expectations, emotions, and unspoken assumptions.
Let me encourage you with this truth: Just because you’re struggling now doesn’t mean your marriage is broken—it means it’s being stretched. And stretching can lead to strength if handled with grace and intention.
Here’s what I want you to know:
💬 Miscommunication isn’t a sign that love is gone—it’s a sign that clarity is needed.
🛠️ It’s not about going back to how it used to be—it’s about building something even better, with deeper understanding, maturity, and intentional love.
👂🏾 Start with one simple but powerful question: “How can I love you better in this season?” And when you ask, really listen. That question opens the door for friendship to re-enter.
You don’t have to do this alone. Keep showing up to our SWC Mastery classes, take the courses that were created for you to manifest a Satisfied life, stay connected to God, and give yourself permission to grow.
I'm praying for wisdom, peace, and a fresh connection to rise up in your home. You’ve got this—and I’m walking with you 💜
Mrs. Toy Banks
The World’s Most Satisfied Wife